| Location | Thorne,doncaster |
| Age | 57 years |
| Date of Birth | 7/1939 |
| Date of Death | 1996 |
| Visitors | 344 since 13/08/2007 |
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Joyce Duddington was taken from us on the 2nd January 1996. Aged 56 years. Her birthday is on the 20th July. She lived and worked in Thorne nearly all of her life. Her husband passed away in January 93. From the time of losing her husband John she was never the same. Joyce suffered from breast cancer back in 91-92. She came through that with the help of John and the rest of the family only to be struck by a Brain Stem Stroke that took her away from us. She chose not to have children of her own which was not a selfish act as she devoted her love and time to all of us nieces and nephews that she loved and we loved back. Our surrogate Mum. the memories she gave us and the love that she showed us helped us through and still does to this day. She lives on in all of us even though she didn't meet all of them like my son kyle who has been brought upto know and love her, as my daughter nicole does even though she was only 2 month's old when she passed. Joyce was goin to be my Daughters God mother which she was lookin forward too. What did Joyce mean to me? well apart from her being my Auntie, she was my life my heart my soul. i cant put into words what i felt for her, she wasn't my auntie she was too special for that title. Never a day goes by that i dont wish things were different and that she was still here with us, what would my life have been like if she wasn't taken from us????? Any way that is just a small part of her life as she is still going on with all our loved ones. That gives me some comfort.....
Remembering you always joyce
with love from all your family x x
13 yrs today
well how could i ever forget this anniversary day,
this was the day when all my world fell apart,
13 yrs how could this be, it only seems like yesterday,
i still wonder why you were taken from me.
how i long to touch you and see you again,
i would give anything for that even my life,
you were my life my heart my soul and always will be,
i dont know how i have made it throught he years without you auntie joyce,
i cant imagine another 13 years without you,
you must have been with me pushin me along all the way,
otherwise i wouldnt have made it,
i dont know whether to be grateful or not but i know what ever you do its for me and i love you so much for that.
my very special auntie, i love you more than life itself and miss you more than words could ever say.
i try to keep your garden nice but its never the same as it was when you were doin it for uncle john.
im sorry for that i do try though,
im goin to ur garden today to make sure its nice incase your mum goes if she's well enough.
well im gonna go now auntie joyce i love you so much and miss you. i will never evr be the same without you but im so happy about all the time we had together, im glad i was there for you when uncle john passed, it was awful watchin the pain you were goin through when he left, i can now understand the pain you felt as i feel it everyday and night, the only difference is you wont let me come to you but uncle john let you come to him.
i love you both with all my heart
love your nephew robert xxxxxxxxxxx
with love..xx
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A Letter From Heaven
To those we love,
Since we parted, you have been sharing so much of us with those around you. The memories are so fresh and real. You hold on to us so tightly in your hearts - where we shall always be.
Your concern has always been for us, but we wonder how you are doing. You will never know all of the prayers that have been prayed for you, the tears that have been shed over your grief and the concern that has been shown for you in a multitude of ways, but we find it so comforting to know you haven't been left alone.
Please know that we are not alone, either. The death that hurt you the most has given me the gift of eternal life. God's promises have been fulfilled in us. When we left you, God was there, waiting, just as He promised. We're surrounded by perfect love. Never let anyone tell you God doesn't exist. If you need to be mad at Him for awhile, that's okay; He can handle it. But never let hate, anger or bitterness fuel you emotions. Talk to Him and let him talk to you. Listen for Him in the voices of the people who love and care about you, and let His Word reassure you that we are doing just fine.
It is comforting to know that you hold us so close while struggling with the prospect of letting us go. You need to know that we will always be together. Eternity is not 'out there,' eternity is now! We have simply moved a little farther ahead of you.
Remember that God never wastes anything - especially love. The love that we shared on earth will be even greater in Heaven. For now, you must rest assured that we are safe in God's perfect love. We would like you to take some of the love you have for us and share it with those around you. You can never run out of love - the more you give away, the more you will have. And let others love you . you are worth loving.
Life is forever. Ours has changed in the twinkling of an eye while yours is changing day-by-day and minute-by-minute. Though your lives will never be the same, that does not mean that they cannot be filled with peace, joy and love. Always look to the future. Don't be afraid of tomorrow - God's already there. Be patient with yourselves. You will make some mistakes, and you will even find yourselves not thinking about 'us' from time to time. That's all right too. All of our needs are being met; you need to take care of you. Hold onto one another, help each other, give hope and love to all you meet.
Above all, be prepared to welcome others into your world of grief and mourning. You are being taught valuable lessons that will need to be passed along. Some will not have your strength, many will not have your faith, and most will feel they are all alone; but all will need the love and understanding only you will be able to give. Now, your pain is the only credential you need to minister to others. When you think of us, never think of us as being alone. Think of us smiling, laughing and enjoying all that god has prepared for us.
Finally, never believe you are alone. Do not focus on what you have lost, but look always at what you have left. You are surrounded by people who love you and care about you. Live with them, love with them, share with them and laugh with them. Make every day a celebration of life - a life that will never end. We will meet again, and until we do, know that we are very proud of you for never giving up.
We love you!
Your Loved Ones In Heaven
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how my heart misses u still
its twelve years today but still the hurt is there,
you were taken so sudden no time for goodbye's,
no time for prayer,
why was such a special person,
a caring person taken away,
i will never understand to this day,
my heart is so empty and dull.
i once remembered when when it was full,
i still hope one day to hear the love in your voice,
the love i long for so much,
you shouldnt have left but it was your choice.
you were and still are the most special person
ive ever known and miss you dearly,
if i had one last chance to say something to you,
it could only have been take me with you,
life will never ever be right without you,
my one and only special auntie joyce.
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_____________New Year To You For
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Christmas Without You
The lights are blinking merrily
The tinsel’s on the tree
It sits there in the window
For all the world to see.
The house is filled with holly
And pinecone scents the air
The Christmas cards keep coming
Each one is hung with care.
The gifts are tied with ribbons red
And topped with pretty bows
I’m done with all the details
As far as Christmas goes.
The fire is softly glowing
I think about your touch
But Christmas isn’t Christmas
I miss you oh, so much.
If I could have just anything
My Christmas wish would be
To wake up in the morning
And find you here with me.
I reminisce our Christmas’ past
The joy and love we shared
Moonlit walks and midnight talks
And ways you showed you cared.
Staring at your picture
I long to be set free
Tonight the tears are streaming
As I hold it next to me.
Flakes of snow swirl through the air
I’m braced for stormy weather
I wait for brighter days ahead
When we can be together.
So hold a place in heaven dear
Someday when life is through
I’ll be the Christmas angel
Who shares this day with you.
in loving memory
i knew Joyce through my sister-in law Margaret Barton,who lived next door and was a close mate of Joyce's she was a much loved, and much loved lady, always making you welcome, with tea, and advice if requested,she was never the same when she lost John, i know everyone misses her, even now.
sleep well now your'e together again
love Gail, and girls
xxx
a letter from heaven
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, 'I welcome you
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......'My day was not in vain.'
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
~Author~
Ruth Ann Mahaffey
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